If you have HPV (the cancer causing kind in women..not the warts), and always use condoms, do you have to tell your partner you have it?
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April 22nd, 2010 at 12:55 pm
absolutely…well u r morally responsible…if u r having sex with someone u luv then u owe them that much respect…if u don’t then u r making a decision for them that they might not want u to make…
gud luck…and be safe.
April 22nd, 2010 at 1:50 pm
I think it is an obligation, as a partner, if you REALLY care about this person to tell them. Condoms are not 100% effective, and if you give your partner HPV, not only are they going to be pissed, mad, freaked out and upset, but they then have to worry about pelvic inflammatory disease, which is not something that anyone wants to deal with.
If i were you, I would tell your partner, put it out there, and then let them participate in the decision making process. That way he/she knows exactly what they are getting into, and if something happens, you are not completely at fault. It also shows that you trust the person to tell them this. Trust is a huge issue. If you accidentally give this to your partner, and you knew the whole time, your more likely to get dumped in that situation than you are if you are just honest.
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P.S. if you have the cancer causing strain of HPV, i hope your seeing a doctor! Good luck.
April 22nd, 2010 at 1:56 pm
I know this may be embarrising but as a nurse I must tell you that for saftey and the saftey of your partner, ou really should tell your partner. If you and your partner really care about eachother that he or she should be understanding;however, this should be her choice because it is her future you are playing with. I am very glad that you use condoms but please remember that condoms are not %100. I hope this helps at least a little
April 22nd, 2010 at 2:08 pm
Yes, you must tell the person and let them decide if it’s a risk they want to take. Don’t you wish that whomever gave it to YOU had had the decency to warn YOU???
April 22nd, 2010 at 3:02 pm
If the tables were turned, would you wanna know?
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April 22nd, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Sadly, it is currently impossible to completely protect your partner from HPV, even with a condom. Be sure to let your partner know if you have HPV.
Good Luck!!
April 22nd, 2010 at 4:26 pm
Well almost everyone has it for reals I do even…what ya do is let them know whats up if you are using protection don’t worry about it they can’t get it… most HPV dont cause warts, mine doesn’t and it has been dormant in my body since I was 15 so it like I don’t even have it
So just be careful and if you really care for someone let them know whats up its there life your messing with… don’t be selfish