So what is my sexuality? I guess I tend to fall more in love with the person/personality than if they have male or female private parts but I have an incredibly high sex drive. Male and female bodies on their own don’t get me hot but I guess if I watch sex on tv it gets me turned on. Is this normal?

even though she is agnostic or atheist(has no religion telling her sex is bad) and we are very close otherwise? While I realize women tend to be more private and embarrassed about their sexual histories compared to men, what other reason could there be besides possible STD infection that a woman would lie or avoid discussing this, especially with a non-religious, non-prudish man like me, especially if she also isn’t religious?