If the girl is on top of the man is it easier to get herpes this way or the other way around. Do certain positions make it easier to catch. What about doggie style.

I have a problem here. For months I have been not touching myself, because I didn’t feel good afterwards. I don’t have a partner now, and wonder if that’s causing some of it. Lately, I have started back to doing these things once a week. Usually I go someplace at night and do it. In a lot of ways, I think I would be happier if I got back with my ex, but it’s not possible right now. I guess there are good sides to doing this, but I really would like to get back to once a month or less. I feel so guilty afterwards, and I don’t want people knowin’ about it. It causes me to get irritable the next day at times, and I’m normally not like that. Are there any tips on how to get better control on this? Because I don’t want people thinking that i’m a nasty person. It’s just at times when I get to thinking< I get to where I get aroused and don’t have a partner. Could I be getting sexually frusterated?
Thanks for the advice. In other words, my sex drive is being engaged and is wanting to be more active. Well, I will just have to realize that it is normal and that there’s nothing wrong with it. However, I think there are always consequences for things, and that means good or bad consequences. It can relieve tension, but also leave me feeling tired.

I’m still a virgin, but my boy friend and I get pretty hot and heavy.
I like getting him turned on and I like making him get reallyyy exhilerated. But when he returns the favor I: A) am not turned on or B) I get super turned on and get super hot, but after I feel like a whore. I just feel like I don’t deserve to get that “into it”. Also I just get embarressed that he has seen me get that turned on. It’s such a private thing to me.

Is this normal? Like I’ve been with my boy friend for 10 months and I’m extremely faithful, but I still feel like a whore?
No I love my boyfriend to death. I couldn’t imagine being with any other guy. I just feel like it’s my ‘duty’ to turn him on, but like it just makes me embarressed that I would get that turned on.

Ok I’d say I have a pretty good sex life, but my bf is lazy and has no imagination! Seriously, whenever we go at it, he ALWAYS puts me on top! the most he’ll do is turn me around and we’ll do it doggie-style, but c’mon, I want to be on the bottom sometimes! Girls, you know sometimes you just want your guy to take the lead? Well he’ll initiate, and then let me do all the grunt work, then he passes out from MY workout! Any sneaky ways to get him to be a man?

I have had unprotected sex a few times before I got a steady boyfriend and have never been checked for any STDs and me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex.
Recently he ejactulated inside me and I went to get the morning after pill and my period came 2 weeks early. Then my period lasted 6 days then stopped for a day and after that I got a dark brown discharge but it seemed like nothing to worry about. Then me and my boyfriend had sex and I started to bleed and now it is like I’m having a light period. There is no pain or discomfort but it seems odd that it’s like my second period in 2 weeks.

My boyfriend noticed he was urinating blood the other day and has been complaining of a pain in his penis when he has an errection and in his testicles. He is worried that I’ve given him an STD because I’m the only person he’s had sex with.

I plan to go and see a doctor in the next couple of days but I was wondering if it sounds like something to worry about or is it common?

Hello! I am 20, and have been with the same guy for 3 years. My period just ended, and now my vagina is acting strange. I have a thick white discharge (does not smell like yeast), sex burns, my water based lube burns, and peeing burns slightly. When i am not doing anything involving my vagina, it itches, but no where near as bad as when i had a yeast infection.

It cant be an STD, ive never cheated and my finance has never cheated

I am on the birth control pill Sprintec, but i read all of the information that came with it, and didnt find anything…

Any ideas?

Thanks

The state continues to rank first or second nationally in the number of chlamydia cases, a ranking it has held since 2000. In 2006, the last year data was available from the Center for Disease control, Alaska ranked 25th in rates of gonorrhea and 28th in syphilis.

http://www.newsminer.com/news/2008/jun/16/study-finds-high-rate-stds-alaska-few-cases-hiv/

My question is dont you think these kids need sex education in their schools and home.

Gov Plain might want to look at some of these stats.
Just thought people would be concern about children in Alaska not getting educated to protect themselves.

I have a younger nephew whom I live with (I’m 17) and lately he keeps coming to me with questions about his… growing and shrinking ‘private area’… What should I tell him … should I tell him about masturbation? Or what…?
He’s 11 years old btw. Thought I’d mention that.

To the negative commenter below: It’s not like I’m attracted to him… God. Right wing nut jobs.

Here is the main issue: He is using condom, and we went 69 position in sexual activity. As he is using condom i am not worried about myself. My doubt is about, if i have AIDS what are the chances he can be effected.
Thanks
harini