You want to get to know your girlfriend or boyfriend upside down because you want to build a healthy relationship and provide with what your lover or spouse needs…or just because you want to know how dirty his or her mind is…
In any case, it’s a very good idea to talk about sex in any serious relationship. From likes and dislikes to feelings or fantasies and why not how to renew the passion once the initial spark is gone.
Good communication will help you build a solid healthy relationship or marriage and save it from a sexless relationship or even divorce.
Read these 13 Killer Sex Questions To Get To Really Know Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend’s dirty mind and also learn to please your loved one more and in different ways…
Ever had sex with you ex’s sister / bother or best friend?
How many times would you like or you consider normal to have sex in a relationship or marriage?
Tell me one really naughty thing about me you ever fantasized with…
Any sex position you prefer? Why? Would you like to know mine and why?
Do you enjoy porn? Virtual sex or phone sex?
How often do you think I masturbate? How often do you masturbate yourself? What kind of thought turns you on or you usually have when you masturbate?
What part of my body were you first attracted to? What do you consider sexy (in me)?
If I don’t seem to be willing to make love what do you do? Do you try to talk? Try to get more intimate and see how I respond to that?
What do you consider flirting? Where you cross a line as regards infidelity?
You feel better if you have control in bed or sometimes you like to feel dominated too? How you feel about a spank? What do you call a gentle spank?!
How do you feel about talking dirty? Would you like to hear some specific words? Do you prefer to enjoy the atmosphere and silence? You can mention some dirty words or phrases you’d like to hear yourself to encourage your boyfriend or girlfriend to open up.
Oral sex…what about it? What do you like to do?
Ever had bisexual fantasies or experiences?
Note you may want to know and go deeper, but sometimes not without a weird kind of feeling or even wonder! But if you really want to get to know who you’re dating or going to marry then asking this kind of sex related questions can help you get a clearer picture of his interests, points of views and background…and like mentioned before, to please your boyfriend or girlfriend better.
If you do want to ask this kind of questions be prepared for the answers and always be respectful trying to avoid judgmental comments. Remember you’re trying to get to know your girl or boyfriend better and such negative reaction could make any of you want to avoid the subject in the future of feel bad about what’s been said.
If you talk about sexuality matters in your relationship then do it with confidence, this should be an opportunity to learn from each other, nothing to regret.
You can be the Woman Men Adore And NEVER Want To Leave!