My boyfriend is 20 and I’m 19. Before him, I was with two different guys sexually speaking; One was a long-term bf and I’m 97% sure that he never gave me anything, and then when we broke up I had a fling with another guy that lasted several months and I’m not sure if he gave me anything so a few days ago, for my boyfriend’s and my own sake, I got STD tests. I got tested for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis and HIV (My clinic couldn’t offer herpes unless I payed and I have no money atm, though I was planning to try and find a cheap test elsewhere…). I got negative for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea and I told my bf about it, and he was all like, “I’m glad for that, to be honest I sorta don’t care for that, but I’m really happy for you.”

So yesterday I was at his place the first time ever. And he went down on me! I didn’t knew what to think except how crazy he was for doing that when we don’t even know if I have HIV or herpes (If I have syphilis I can always get cured with medicine from the clinic…) Why doesn’t he care about our sexual health? Now if he gets something from me, I’m going to feel like sh*t!

It DOES NOT have to be a place where pervs discuss their sexual prowice. There are legitimate issues that revolve around sexual disfunction in relationships. Why are people still afraid of the “S” word?

i forget where, but i heard somewhere that drinking a cup of milk (or at least having lots of calcium in a day) before bed helps improve a womens sexual health, and are more capable of getting wet. think thats true?
lol yea im totally aware how dumb this question is XD

I just found out my boyfriend of 2 years has genital herpes. He recently went to have some std testing and came back positive for genital herpes. The dr mentioned he has had it for at least 5 years. I’m anxious to get tested this coming week, but and stressing. I was just curious if it it’s contagious only when he has an out break? Thanks for your help!

My cousin thinks he might have got an std from a girl he rescently had sex with and she doesn’t have any std’s or anything. So is it possible to get an std from a girl who does not have an std?

I mean cant you catch an std from bacteria you catch from unprotected sex? And I mean like regular bacteria, not STD bacteria.

me and my boyfriend were having oral sex, he doesn’t have genital herpes and i don’t have any type. but now im getting some weird outbreak of my lips. they kind of sting if i touch them. they aren’t like very noticeable. they are just small red dots, above my top lip, and under my bottom. there aren’t many either, just like 5 or 6 in total. and they aren’t flat, like they kind of stick out like a bump. so please help me.

My boy friend think he got genital warts from me but i went to see the doctor to get the HPV test and the result said i don’t have it but he insisted that it was from me. Is it possible?