if i have genital herpes and i don’t get it checked out by a doctor can anything serious happen? im currently not sexually active, and i haven’t been for a long time.

i’ve never enrolled in sexual activity with someone else, i’m still only 15, but for the last few months, i’ve had this dark purple unsensitive spot on the borderline of my penis head/ring. it doesn’t poke out, and isn’t very big, im just concerned as i’m not sure how it got there. has anyone else experienced a similar problem?
it has not grown bigger or smaller, and is probably a couple of mm’s big at the most.
it’s something i’m really embarrased to say to my mum or dad.

Join summer camp. Is it true that i have to be checked and is he suposed to be the one to do it?

I had unprotected sex last weekend, and am going to get tested on Thursday, when doing the STD tests, can they tell if you’re pregnant or not?

I am going to get a smear test done but I don’t know what it checks for? I want to get like an overall check for everything all STI’s and STD’s but i don’t know what tests they do, like blood tests etc? Any info greatly appreciated.

He has had his blood tested, but I know that visual examination is often needed for something like genital warts. How do I ask him to be checked?
He has had his blood tested, but I know that visual examination is often needed for something like genital warts. How do I ask him to be checked?

I should add that he doesn’t have bumps on the actual penis, but there is one in the pubic area.