My husband and I have not cheated on each other, but I was diagnosed with an STD. What are the possibilities that it was laying dormant or that it came from somewhere like a toilet seat? I know some can live outside the body for a short time, so isn’t it possible to get it another way?

she contacted genital warts 16 years ago without incident for 16 years. Then we met and make wonderful love together. She started complaining about itchiness and got a cold sore on her lip. That’s when I found out about the genital warts—six months into our relationship. Is their a connection