inner thigh, testis, and other genital area where not covered by the condom, potentially infected by HPV through mucosa at the wound where unnoticed. Besides, female HPV probably transmittable into cervix cancer.don’t u think the condom commercial or advertisement should provide alert message like the tobaco company ?

This is going to sound like a very strange question, because frankly it is. Keep in mind I’m only 17 and male.

I don’t find myself sexually attracted to people, neither guy nor gal. The only thing that gets me on is the acts of illegality – specifically use of marijuana. Marijuana is the only ‘fetish’ I have, I don’t even think you can call it that because it’s the only thing that makes me aroused. Please note I’m not attracted to the person preforming the act, just the act (smoking, or just seeing the actual plant). This is weird isn’t it?

Note: I try to eschew marijuana because I’ll be tempted to smoke it for the sexual experience. I’ve tried it, about a year ago, I’m afraid my sexual drive will push me towards it again, even though I don’t think it’s ‘evil’ or anything like that I just really don’t want to smoke it, it’s frustrating.
I don’t have intrusive thoughts unless I’m spontaneously aroused.

i asked a question about sex yesterday and it was deleted :/
there were no graphic details involved; really it was quite clean.
is there a sex health category i should’ve put it in?
it was an educational sounding question. there were no references to specific body parts or anything graphic. i put it in the singles and dating section.

I have been seeing this guy, we havent had sex yet but we really want to. he just sat me down and told me he has herpes. I still want to have sex with him. but i dont like to use condoms and i want to go down on him too. can i do those things and not get it or will we have to use a condom forever?

mselves? Shouldnt they be finding a way to get the real deal
Instead of asking questions online

im 18, a virgin, but me and my girlfriend will most likely be consumating soon. i just wanted to have a bit of knowledge before i proceed

1. what are ppl talking about when they mention “how many times” they went, after sex
2. are you suppose to roll off as soon as u ejaculate, or do u just keep on going (protected of course)
3. when guys in movies say: 10 mins, new record, what are they refering to

Any info on this stuff would be great

Alright, I tend to be a very sexual person, and always have been in the past. Even during my first marriage (I never got “horny” for my husband after the wedding, the relationship just sucked that bad) I was able to get aroused by other men and women (I’m bi) In previous relationships, I had a happy, healthy, and very vigorous, sex life.

But my current relationship is a long distance one, and when he is away, I stay completely celebate. Even if I wanted to have sex with some one else, I just can’t get aroused! When he is here, everything is fine- normal arousal and ability to orgasm with HIM. But now, the only way to get me hot and bothered with him away is the purr of an engine (I have a thing for fast cars) and my orgasms aren’t even wholly satisfying!

Is there something wrong? Is it alright? Could it be that it’s all fine, my concience just trumps my hormones? What’s the deal?!
If this is the wrong place for this question, let me know and I’ll move. I just thought it more fitting here since I’m a girl and all.
The inability to get aroused doesn’t bother me, just confuses me since it’s never happened before.

It’s the lack of a pleasing orgasm without him that bothers me!

1.I had sex for the first time last thursday. My periods are not regular at all, and I am paranoid that I could be pregnant even though we use a contraceptive. What do i do?
2. I really doubt i have an std but if i did, would i know by now?
3. should i take an at home pregnancy test just in case, and if so, when should i take it because it’s been since last thursday.

I used to have a surging, robust sexual drive. It was absolutely off the charts. I felt like Kennedy on crack, with my throbbing 7 inch springing to life every time I laid eyes on a curvy figure or a cute face. Then, one day, I lost it all. I was listening to head phones too loudly and punctured a hole in my ear drum.

To make a long story short, the whole healed and my hearing is perfect now but I developed an inner ear disorder called eustachian tube dysfunction. It is chronic. It was very painful at first but now I just hear a slight pop in my ears each time I swallow.

I’ve been on decongestants galore and I’m ninety percent cured of the disease…just judging by how I feel.

YET. One terrible thing happened to me, which may or may not be related to the ear disease.
My masturbation sessions began to hurt. Every time I ejaculated I felt pain throughout my body.
Don’t tell me it had nothing to do with ETD because it did…in those early days at least.

Then one day, I closed my eyes and dreamed of the rockstar chick, of my dreams I shot the most monstrous load of my life cause I was fantasizing about butt f***king her over a heap of coke.

Ever since that masturbation session, my sex drive has been virtually dead.
I was 22 years old.

I have tried everything to bring my sex drive back….psych meds. exercise, hookers, dance parties, and a girlfriend or two. I’m now 28 and I still go weeks at a time without feeling any sexual arousal.

If you know anything about the link between chronic pain and sex drive disorders please help.
If you know anything about how to revitalize sexual energy after the libido had died due to past genital pain, then please help.
If you know anything AT ALL about how a twenty something man can rejuvenate his sex drive, please help.

My erections are still strong and normal but I don’t feel any sexual energy. I just get a hard on in a very mechanical, disconnected way.
And I don’t get erect as often as a I used to.

I have a question about my health. I’m a 16 year old girl, and I know the “symptoms” of being aroused,–hard nipples, excretions from “down there”–but I want to know if this is normal for me.

I very rarely feel “mentally” aroused, but I constantly display the symptoms. It’s like my body is always excreting stuff “down there.” One day, I didn’t even feel remotely aroused, but I excreted enough fluid to coat my legs.

I can’t bring myself to orgasm from masturbating, but I think I just need more practice/tools. Any information as far as the “reason” for my constant physical arousal but rare mental arousal would be much appreciated. Thanks!